Cultivating a Persona Online
A great deal has been made of the time teachers are spending online these days because they are teaching online, a very unfamiliar task for so many of them. They are complaining about burn-out and how they can't effective as classroom teachers. I can understand their difficulties under the circumstances and how they did not ask for this to happen, but I thought it might be worthwhile to explore some of my own experiences and perhaps come up with some conclusions going forward. My earliest experiences in a discussion group were before the creation of java scripting. It goes back to my first online Talmud class. I stumbled upon the link to the class and signed up for it. I remember I was still working on an early Pentium ,maybe 365, computer. The class required each participant to post a picture of themselves. Every time anyone posted a comment or a question, their picture appeared before their post. I know it sounds almost self-explanatory, but when you are carrying on interactions online with a stranger, it helps to be able to see that person in your mind's eye. We are visual creatures and we respond to visual stimuli. The same thing pertains to carrying on a relationship with someone strange. If you think about it, in the old days, when we had penpals, you always wanted to see pictures of this person so you could imagine them in your mind's eye sitting and talking to you. That experience taught me an important lesson about interactions online. WE all want to "see" the other person. The second thing I remember is that I began to understand, by the way the others wrote, something about their personality and how they think. I don't think that I am so insightful but I could read into their words online something about their voice, their approach to things. I found that that knowledge and introspection continued into my years as an instructor in computer courses. I always insisted that my course included some online discussions and I knew what. my students were feeling and saying as they wrote. We all relay more than just plain ideas when we speak, face-to-face. The third lesson is akin to what I am referring to above. Each of us are people first and when we are learning, even in an online course, our lives are more than just that one series of interactions. I began. to relay little things about myself and I know here, some are going to say they don't want their students to know anything about themselves. BUT.....we are people first and my students felt closer to me because I shared a part of my life, my experiences, my feelings. I became REAL to them. Just think about all the reactions in the press to the death of movie stars and rock stars. They have become real people to all of us because they have shared something of themselves. It enabled us to relate to them as people. Finally, I found that these other little strategies helped me deal with the minutiae of the tasks at hand. I was able to consider more realistically those who were being genuine and thoughtful in their postings and those who were not. It took time to cultivate those relationships, but the reality of working online became more natural and more interactive and actually, believe it or not, took me less and less time because I was able to relate to my students as people and if I knew a whack of them had the same issues, I could respond to that rather than one on one. It is not easy, I know that. But you have to cultivate the relationship up front and the more time you spend up front to prime the pump the easier and less time consuming it becomes down the road. It does get easier and less time consuming and more meaningful.



